Consent & Safety
Spicy should still be clear.
Intensive Desires is for consenting adults 18+. Alternative lifestyles do not change the need for boundaries, communication and the ability to stop.
Adults only
The app and its mature relationship features are intended only for adults 18+.
Consent stays active
Consent is not a one-time checkbox. People can change their minds, pause or revoke.
Roles are not ownership
Dominant/submissive, switch and other role labels describe consensual dynamics, not legal or permanent control over another person.
Private does not mean unsafe
Use real-world judgment when meeting, traveling, drinking, or exploring new activities.
Results are not diagnosis
Compatibility and dynamics results are conversation tools, not clinical or professional assessments.
Third parties still matter
Your agreement with one person cannot remove another person’s right to consent.